Perimenopause: the signs nobody told you about

It can start years before your last period, and it isn't only hot flashes. The quieter signs to look out for, and what you can do.

By the Sweet on Her team · · 6 min read

Perimenopause: the signs nobody told you about

Most of us were told about hot flashes and not much else. But perimenopause, the years leading up to your final period, often starts in your early-to-mid forties, and its first signs can be surprisingly subtle.

The quieter signs

  • Sleep that's lighter, or waking at 3 am for no clear reason.
  • Feeling more anxious or irritable than usual.
  • Periods that change: shorter cycles, heavier days, or skipped months.
  • Brain fog: walking into a room and forgetting why.
  • Changes in skin and hair, including dryness and thinning.
  • New aches in your joints.

These changes come from oestrogen and progesterone rising and falling unevenly, rather than declining in a neat line. That's why symptoms can come and go, and feel different month to month.

You're not imagining it, and you don't have to just put up with it.

What you can do

Start by tracking: a simple note of sleep, mood and cycle for a couple of months makes conversations with your doctor much easier. Strength training, protein at breakfast and a steady bedtime all help more than you'd expect.

We made MENO+ for exactly this stage. It's the Daily Pack you know, plus a sixth gummy, the gold flame, with ingredients chosen to support comfort through hot flashes and steadier moods.*

Supplements support a routine; they don't replace medical care. If symptoms are affecting your day-to-day life, ask your doctor about all the options available to you.

This article is for general information and isn't medical advice. *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.

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